When adjusting to a new time zone, I often find that my mind is racing when I try to fall back asleep in the middle of the night, so I have learned some relaxation techniques that help. First, you need to mentally chill out. Don’t repeatedly check the time, and don’t allow yourself to feel stressed about being awake. Get up and go to the bathroom, even if you feel like you don’t really need to, and then get back into bed and relax by using one of the following techniques:
Detailed Visualization: My go-to, most effective way to fall back asleep is to think of something from my past and try to remember all of the details in a sequential order. For example, I might think of my last international adventure and try to methodically go through every day and remember as much as possible (where we went, what we did). Another favorite is to think of a very familiar place from my childhood (grandma’s house, my own childhood home) and either do a detailed visual walk-through of each room, or visualize the drive to get there. For some reason, I never get very far, and this puts me to sleep within minutes!
Cognitive Shuffling: Chris really likes this technique, where you think of random, non-associated, non-emotionally charged things and visualize them in your mind. A rooster. The Empire State Building. A pink glazed donut. Abraham Lincoln. A stop sign. Focus on the image of each item for three to five seconds and then switch to the next completely random thing.
Slow breathing: inhale through your nose for a count of four; hold your breath for a count of seven; and exhale through your mouth for a count of eight. Repeat.
Body scan meditation: starting at your feet and working methodically all the way up to your head, slowly focus on the sensations that you feel in each part of your body. Notice any pressure, aches, pains, or tension, and try to relax that part of the body if possible. Go nice and slow, and if you get all the way through this exercise (I never do!), switch to the slow breathing technique above.